FAQ

Can I be your slave?
Are you available?
When are you available?
What are your rates?
Where do you session?
Are you planning to come to (city)?
What is your favorite session activity?
Do you do (activity), (activity), and (activity)?
Why do I need to send a deposit? Can I get my deposit back?
Is my fetish weird? How common is my fetish?
Can you tell me what you’ll do to me in session?
How long of a session do you recommend for me?
I want to session with you but am nervous. Do you have any other options for me?
I’m a broke college student. Do you do discounts?
Can you send me pictures?
Do I need to tip?
I would like to get you a present. Where can I find your wishlist?
What is your height? Weight? Shoe size?
Do you see women/trans/etc. as well?
Do you see couples? Do you teach couples?
Can I ask you out on a date?

 

Can I be your slave?
If you need to ask that, then no. Consider that you are asking this within the dynamic of a professional and client, and therefore I am assuming you are inquiring about free play. My personal slaves do not get free play – they are still expected to session with me, but they get the privilege of serving me outside of just our sessions alone. Within the dynamic of professional and client, I only take slaves on should they demonstrate excellence and trust over the course of several years. I have no interest in taking on anybody as a personal slave right from the get-go. That’s like asking for a hand in marriage upon first meeting. How do you know if we are even compatible?
Also, I do not fuck my slaves nor do I have “sex slaves”. I have play partners for that, and you are clearly not one. My definition of personal slaves lies in service, not personal pleasure. Service means activities that lift me out of the banal (AKA things I just really don’t feel like doing), like cleaning my house, washing my car, doing the dishes, grabbing takeout, and driving me to the airport. Being a personal slave does not mean that you will be chained to my basement and I will be feeding you my lover’s cum and riding your face.
Want to be my slave? Show me your commitment and work for it. If I enjoy you, I may have you run a few errands for me.

Are you available?
No, I am not. I require a minimum three hour notice for all sessions as well as a deposit for all first-timers (and considering that you are asking that question, I will assume you are first-timer to me) – however, my caveat is that I very rarely take same day appointments. Confirmed regulars have the privilege of setting up last-minute appointments, but I  still prefer all my sessions to be booked 48h in advance. Also, am I available for what? Please elaborate on your session interests so that I know we are a compatible match.

When are you available?
I take most of my sessions on the weekdays during waking hours between 11AM-12AM. Earlier and later sessions have a higher tribute unless they are part of longer sessions. I require all weekend sessions to be booked in advance by Friday 7PM latest as I am a human with a social life.

What are your rates?
My tributes are contingent upon the session interests and location. Please fill out my contact form so that I may know your interests and city and price accordingly.

Where do you session?
In Los Angeles, I take most of my sessions at private incall dungeons in either DTLA (Ivy Manor, Dungeon East). They are well-equipped, private, and clean. For any tours outside of Los Angeles, I prefer to take my sessions at a well-equipped dungeon whenever possible. If no dungeons are available for rent in the city or are of questionable quality, I will host at a private incall location of my choosing. I also offer outcall sessions, and the tribute is contingent on the distance away from me.

Are you planning to come to (city)?
Please take a look at pretty much anywhere on my website or my social media for my tour schedules. If your city is not on my tour schedule, then you can safely assume that I have no current plans to visit said city. You may, however, submit a polite request for me to travel to your city provided that you generously sponsor the flight and lodging out.

What is your favorite session activity?
As I am a complex and multi-faceted person, I do not have a single favorite activity. My interests have grown and developed with each year that I have been in Femdom. Medical fetish and all sorts of sadism (humiliation, beatdowns, corporal punishment, cock and ball torture, ballbusting) were my personal kinks before I went professional, but I have grown to absolutely adore heavy bondage, hypnotism, and electrical play. I did not think I was sensual before I became a professional, but I also incorporate tease and denial in nearly all of my sessions. And of course, I cannot say that what I enjoy in my personal life will necessarily be what I enjoy with you – my interactions with each bottom are unique to the scene itself, and I do not know what you will respond well to until we actually play. I can assure you that I will not be taking sessions that I am not interested in, and as a take-charge sort of woman, I will definitely be incorporating in activities that please me within our session. After all, it’s important to expand your boundaries, right?

Do you do (activity), (activity), and (activity)?
Take a look at my Playtime page to see if your desired BDSM interests fall under that. If not, feel free to inquire directly with me as I am aware the list is not all-comprehensive.

Why do I need to send a deposit? Can I get my deposit back?
As my schedule does tend to get booked up quickly, a deposit ensures that my time is not wasted when I cut out a portion of my schedule just for you. Timewasters are prevalent throughout my line of work and it is something that I account for with every single person that books with me. When you do not show up for our session but ask for that space to be reserved for you, I could have booked someone else during that time, and therefore I have lost on another session that may have made up for your lack. Think about it this way: an in-demand restaurant will frequently charge for last-minute cancellations on reservations because they have reserved that spot for you and could have filled it with another reservation. I am the same. All sessions require a deposit until we have seen each other enough times to develop a rapport.
If you are unsure of your schedule on the day that you have booked with me and do not want to send a deposit, I reserve the right to book over your session should someone else want your time slot. If you are a regular, have not sent a deposit for our session, and cancel last-minute, I also reserve the right to ask for the session tribute in full.
Should you cancel your session within 36h of our session, I will keep the deposit. You may get your deposit back should you cancel before that.

Is my fetish weird? How common is my fetish?
I get it: you’re apprehensive about coming out with your personal kinks, and that’s ok. Ultimately, my vocation deals with the “weird”. I mean, that’s what fetish and BDSM exist around – the alternative sexual desires. Everything is weird, and nothing is. We’re all in the same kinky boat together. I don’t like calling anybody’s sexual desire’s “weird” or “strange” because it is really not up to me to judge. After all, I’m a dominatrix! I probably do stranger things than you on a daily basis, and few things faze me in that regard. And realistically, I cannot tell you how common your fetish is because the people I see are very specifically oriented towards me and my persona. Some people specialize in tickling, some people specialize in humiliation, some people specialize in toilet play, some people specialize in hair fetish…the list goes on and on. What I see as “common” is only relative to the clientele that I attract within that area, so I can’t tell you how prevalent a fetish is in any given population because I am only one person in a very specific niche in a very specific location in time and space. My knowledge on popularity is merely anecdotal.

Can you tell me what you’ll do to me in session?
No. Those are my secrets to have, and why would I ruin a surprise? In any case, if you are inquiring about this merely to get your jollies off (and I am assuming that you are doing so because of my secret Domme-y sense), please give me a ring at my Niteflirt or set up either a phone, text message, or email session with me. I am not a free erotica service.

How long of a session do you recommend for me?
I have a one hour minimum for all my sessions, but as a general whole, I prefer all my sessions to be a minimum of two hours. Unless you have a very specific fetish or scenario that will take less than an hour, I find that one hour frequently feels rushed and forced. For novices, I like to take the extra time to ease them into the scene and develop rapport and trust between the two of us. An hour may seem overwhelming or intimidating with the sheer density of sensations that may occur. Also, a rushed Mistress is not a happy Mistress.
Therefore, the sweet spot for most of my sessions runs between 2-3 hours, depending on session interests. Certain activities bode better with longer sessions. For full transformation/sissification, I recommend a minimum of two hours purely for all the makeup preparation and shaving. For heavy bondage (rope, mummification, leather restraints, etc.), I recommend a minimum of three hours as elaborate bondage takes time to get in and out of, not even including the time spent in it for pure enjoyment.

I want to session with you but am nervous. Do you have any other options for me?
Of course. I am happy that you are cognizant of your own readiness within this realm and think it’s important to move at a pace that feels comfortable with you. I would suggest either a Niteflirt/phone or a Skype session to get us more acquainted with each other without the pressure of an in-person session. I also do in-person consultations at a public location (typically a cafe); these consultations are not dynamically Femdom, but instead casual meetings to get us acquainted with each other.

I’m a broke college student. Do you do discounts?
I do not do discounts of any kind. Female Domination is a luxury, not a necessity. I have spent time and money honing my craft, skillset, and gear and my tribute reflects that. In the same way that you have spent money on your education in order to better your job future, so have I spent money on my practice to better my output. I do not continue conversations with hagglers.
If you are on a limited spending limit, you have a couple of options:
– Save up money. 😉
– Set up a phone or Skype session.
– Apply for one of my specials when available. As of November 2017, I am going to offer specials for very specific activities that I am interested in using test slaves for. These specials are specifically for the activities I am interested in honing and exploring, nothing else – skills like singletailing, suturing, shibari practice. These sessions are purely for MY own personal practice and do not cater to you, which means I will not be wearing fancy fetish gear nor will I be accepting any requests for specific activities on your part. You will merely be a practice dummy for my own use.

Can you send me pictures?
Unless they are pictures of what we took in session, all other pictures are tributed. Plenty of photos exist of me online and it doesn’t take an internet whiz to find them. Do your own typing and find them yourself, or better yet, take a thorough look at my gallery and social media.

Do I need to tip?
My tributes are set so that tips are not necessary, however they are highly appreciated (and of course, I take personal note of all tippers). Had a wonderful time and want to show it? A tip is a fine way of showing your gratitude. If you don’t have anything on hand, you may tip me via Giftrocket or Amazon Giftcard.

I would like to get you a present. Where can I find your wishlist?
Say hello to my Amazon Wishlist and my Babylikestopony Wishlist.

What is your height? Weight? Shoe size?
5’1″ – I don’t weigh myself – a wide 6/7. I am quite petite, despite what my pictures may cause you to think.

Do you see women/trans/etc. as well?
Absolutely. I am pansexual and believe that every gender should be able to experience Femdom BDSM.

Do you see couples? Do you teach couples?
Yes! I love playing with and teaching couples. Let me know what you are specifically aiming to experience or learn, and I’d be more than happy to participate. I also adore watching how others play, so this is always quite exciting for me.

Can I ask you out on a date?
I do not date my clients. You can, however, set up a social outing with me for dinner, drinks, and perhaps the opera or theater. All my social outings are tributed, and you will be expected to pay for everything else that night.